頁籤選單縮合
題名 | 虛虛實實之間:婆媳關係的和諧化歷程與轉化機制=From Superficiality to Genuineness: Harmonization Processes and Transformation Mechanism between Mothers-and Daughters-in-Law |
---|---|
作者 | 黃囇莉; 許詩淇; Huang, Li-li; Hsu, Shih-chi; |
期刊 | 本土心理學研究 |
出版日期 | 20060400 |
卷期 | 25 民95.04 |
頁次 | 頁3-45 |
分類號 | 544.18 |
語文 | chi |
關鍵詞 | 人際和諧; 人際衝突; 家庭關係; 婆媳關係; 機化轉制; Daughters-in-law; Family relationships; Interpersonal conflict; Interpersonal harmony; Mothers-in-law; Transforming mechanism; |
英文摘要 | Previous studies on the relation between mothers- and daughters-in-law emphasized relational conflict and used static models to identify sources of conflict. They concluded there is no way to improve negative relations and neglected either the dynamic process of relational transformation or the dyadic interaction. This study used the dynamic model of interpersonal harmony and conflict to explore the constructive harmonization process and conflict transformation mechanisms between mothers- and daughters-in-law. Analysis of interviews conducted with 8 mothers-in-law and 11 daughters-in law (not paired) revealed 2 possible courses of relational transformation. All participants maintained relational harmony early in the relationship, hiding discomfort out of fear of face-to-face conflict. In the second stage, if mutual obligations as daughter-and mother-in-law were fulfilled, their relationship became one of genuine harmony (GH), meaning that outer behavior matched hidden emotions. However, if mutual obligations were ignored, their relations were characterized by superficial harmony (SH), meaning outer behavior did not match hidden emotions related to conflict. Three phases of GH were identified: GH forms as each fulfills role obligations and affection (chin-yi), GH develops as genuine instead of obligatory affection is expressed and the negative emotion resulting from hidden conf1ict transforms to positive emotion and cognition, and GH is reinforced as drop their role obligations under the Chinese patriarchal hierarchy and no longer fear face-to-face conf1ict. Three phases of SH were identified: SH is maintained when obligatory role affection is ignored, SH becomes fixed if role obligations are not fulfilled, and SH becomes outright conf1ict frequently involving other family members. For both types of harmony the 3 phases differed according to the intensity of the relationship and progress of time. Interpersonal conf1ict between mothers- and daughters-in-law is a dynamic process. The mechanism for transforming hidden conflict into positive relations is the key to improving the relationship. Developing and reinforcing GH supports positive relationships between mothers- and daughters-in-law better than avoiding face-to-face conflict. |
本系統之摘要資訊系依該期刊論文摘要之資訊為主。